The point is, you will never know what you can accomplish until you try. Be secure with the fact that you are someone with pure and direct intentions.

At the end of your dinner, it’s time to shoot your shot. After you fill out the receipt, leave him your number and a flirty message. Let him know that you also accept tips. Big tips.

Dear V, How do I transform fall into the hot girl semester I deserve?

Let me just start off by saying the first thing that came to mind after I read your question: “Yikes.” I think that’s a good way to sum up your conundrum.

I think we need to remember that relationships are best enjoyed when you’re feeling happy and healthy.

Simply put, sometimes the closet gets a little claustrophobic. And if you’re reading this, you’re probably going back and forth with the idea of leaving it. Well, V’s here to help. Here are my tips on how to make this very big step seem a little less scary.

Do yourself a favor and put your goals first. You’re not doing it in a selfish way, just in a “I don’t want to miss out on this dope opportunity and be crippled with regret for the rest of my life” kind of way.

There’s no “correct” age to start dating. It will happen when it happens, and until then, all you should do is remain open to the possibility of new relationships.

Have a conversation about your expectations and casually (but assertively) address your concerns.

If you’re genuinely concerned about your friend, don’t just stand by and let her be mistreated.