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Dear V: Bedroom bliss going limp

Dear V, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months and we recently had sex for the first time. Before things got heated in the bedroom, he warned me about an issue: he has erectile dysfunction, or,...

Dear V: Does my boyfriend have a ‘side chick?’

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has been making a lot of jokes about cheating. He acts like it’s no big deal when I get angry with him, but I don’t understand why he’d continue joking about it if he kn...

Dear V: My girlfriend’s contagious confession

Dear V, My girlfriend of three years just confessed to me that she’s had herpes the entire time we’ve been dating. She said that since it’s been in remission, so there’s a lower chance of me contra...

Dear V: Parents’ political views causing tension in relationship

Dear V, I’m a junior at UM from New York City. My family’s pretty progressive, tolerant and open-minded, to say the least. I’d actually go so far as to say we’re about as liberal as they come. Recen...

Dear V: Long distance, short conversation

Dear V, I’m a freshman and I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend, who lives across the country, since the beginning of the semester. We’ve been dating for three years, and we’r...

Dear V: Halloweenzilla ruining holiday with perfect party every year

Dear V, My girlfriend is absolutely obsessed with Halloween. Every year, she throws a gigantic, expensive party. She goes all out: arranging catered food, renting a bar, hiring a live band, you ...

Dear V: Girlfriend steals more than just hearts

Dear V, A few days ago, I found out my girlfriend has a secret with a hefty price tag. She shoplifts compulsively, and she’s somehow hidden this from me for the two years we’ve been dating. The ...

Dear V: Moans n’ groans bit too much in bed

Dear V, I’ve been dating a guy for a few months, and we just started having sex. The first time we had sex, I noticed he makes weird sounds...Like, I’m talking very weird. He moans like a cat in heat...

Dear V: Girlfriend letting go of her appearance

Dear V, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three years. I’ll be honest, I’m an attractive guy. I’m all about getting gains, I’m focused on my swoleness and I never skip leg day. All jokes aside,...

Dear V: Boyfriend feeling neglected

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has been accusing me of not spending enough time with him. I’m not doing it intentionally, really, but I’m super busy with school and work. I try to balance time spent w...

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