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Dear V: Girlfriend steals more than just hearts
Dear V

Dear V: Girlfriend steals more than just hearts

Dear V, A few days ago, I found out my girlfriend has a secret with a hefty price tag. She shoplifts compulsively, and she’s somehow hidden this from me for the two years we’ve been dating. The other day, though, I ran into her at the mall. I was there by myself, and she was…

Dear V: Moans n’ groans bit too much in bed
Dear V

Dear V: Moans n’ groans bit too much in bed

Dear V, I’ve been dating a guy for a few months, and we just started having sex. The first time we had sex, I noticed he makes weird sounds…Like, I’m talking very weird. He moans like a cat in heat and grunts like an old man trying to get out of a recliner. Now, I’m…

Dear V: Girlfriend letting go of her appearance
Dear V

Dear V: Girlfriend letting go of her appearance

Dear V, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three years. I’ll be honest, I’m an attractive guy. I’m all about getting gains, I’m focused on my swoleness and I never skip leg day. All jokes aside, I keep myself in tip-top shape. My girlfriend does too, or at least she used to. Lately, she’s let…

Dear V: Boyfriend feeling neglected
Dear V

Dear V: Boyfriend feeling neglected

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has been accusing me of not spending enough time with him. I’m not doing it intentionally, really, but I’m super busy with school and work. I try to balance time spent with family, friends and my guy, but sometimes he gets the short end of the stick because we live…

Dear V: My best friend hit on my boyfriend
Dear V

Dear V: My best friend hit on my boyfriend

Dear V, The last few weeks, my best friend has been increasingly difficult. At the football game last weekend, it was the final straw. We’re both partiers, so I’m used to being the designated driver, and I don’t mind holding her hair back while she’s hunched over the toilet. That’s what friends are for, right?…

Dear V: New year, new me?
Dear V

Dear V: New year, new me?

Dear V, I’m a freshman that just started school at the U. My nose is crooked from an accident in middle school. It never bothered me much, as I’m from a small town in the Midwest and, there, people couldn’t care less about your appearance. At least, they care a lot less than here in…

Dear V: Boyfriend becoming beauty guru
Dear V

Dear V: Boyfriend becoming beauty guru

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has picked up an interesting hobby – one that I wouldn’t expect, given he’s on the football team and is in a frat – he started wearing makeup. At first, it was a joke. He had a zit one day, so I taught him how to cover it up with a bit of…

Dear V: Are ‘flirtationships’ really cheating?
Dear V

Dear V: Are ‘flirtationships’ really cheating?

Dear V, Lately, I’ve noticed my boyfriend has been hiding his phone from me. He seems to always be texting someone, but he doesn’t tell me who it is. On Instagram, I noticed a girl commenting on all of his pictures. I’ve had an inkling that he’s been cheating for a while, so I asked…

Dear V:  Social media obsession ruining relationship
Dear V

Dear V: Social media obsession ruining relationship

Dear V, My girlfriend is a self-titled “social media queen.” She’s always posting somewhere, from Facebook and Instagram to Pinterest DIY tags and Tumblr fandoms. It was cute at first. She’d post a selfie with me and our friends would gawk over us on Facebook. I thought she was just showing off the new guy…

Dear V: Weathering storms without an umbrella
Dear V

Dear V: Weathering storms without an umbrella

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has been pushing for us to have sex without a condom. I trust him and we’ve been dating for years, so I’m not afraid of STIs. That said, though, I’m not on birth control. I used to be on the pill, but I went off it because it made me…

Dear V: Boyfriend’s fetishes becoming too extreme
Dear V

Dear V: Boyfriend’s fetishes becoming too extreme

Dear V, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year or so. We met on a fetish website and hit it off instantly, so we’re just as close to each other physically as we are emotionally, and we’ve shared a lot of unique moments. We’ve enjoyed trying out new things in the bedroom….


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