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Dear V: Bedroom bliss going limp
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Dear V: Bedroom bliss going limp

Dear V, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months and we recently had sex for the first time. Before things got heated in the bedroom, he warned me about an issue: he has erectile dysfunction, or, he has trouble “keeping it up” in the bedroom. He said he was diagnosed by a doctor…

Dear V: Does my boyfriend have a ‘side chick?’
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Dear V: Does my boyfriend have a ‘side chick?’

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has been making a lot of jokes about cheating. He acts like it’s no big deal when I get angry with him, but I don’t understand why he’d continue joking about it if he knows it bothers me. The other day, I was texting a classmate asking what we had…

Dear V: My girlfriend’s contagious confession
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Dear V: My girlfriend’s contagious confession

Dear V, My girlfriend of three years just confessed to me that she’s had herpes the entire time we’ve been dating. She said that since it’s been in remission, so there’s a lower chance of me contracting it, and that the reason she didn’t tell me all this time is that she was afraid to…

Dear V: Long distance, short conversation
Dear V

Dear V: Long distance, short conversation

Dear V, I’m a freshman and I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend, who lives across the country, since the beginning of the semester. We’ve been dating for three years, and we’re what you’d describe as “high school sweethearts.” I can’t imagine my life without my girlfriend. But lately she’s not putting in…

Dear V: Halloweenzilla ruining holiday with perfect party every year
Dear V

Dear V: Halloweenzilla ruining holiday with perfect party every year

Dear V, My girlfriend is absolutely obsessed with Halloween. Every year, she throws a gigantic, expensive party. She goes all out: arranging catered food, renting a bar, hiring a live band, you name it. The decorations are plastered all over the walls and everything is orchestrated down to the nitty-gritty details. She basically turns into…

Dear V: Girlfriend steals more than just hearts
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Dear V: Girlfriend steals more than just hearts

Dear V, A few days ago, I found out my girlfriend has a secret with a hefty price tag. She shoplifts compulsively, and she’s somehow hidden this from me for the two years we’ve been dating. The other day, though, I ran into her at the mall. I was there by myself, and she was…

Dear V: Moans n’ groans bit too much in bed
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Dear V: Moans n’ groans bit too much in bed

Dear V, I’ve been dating a guy for a few months, and we just started having sex. The first time we had sex, I noticed he makes weird sounds…Like, I’m talking very weird. He moans like a cat in heat and grunts like an old man trying to get out of a recliner. Now, I’m…

Dear V: Girlfriend letting go of her appearance
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Dear V: Girlfriend letting go of her appearance

Dear V, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three years. I’ll be honest, I’m an attractive guy. I’m all about getting gains, I’m focused on my swoleness and I never skip leg day. All jokes aside, I keep myself in tip-top shape. My girlfriend does too, or at least she used to. Lately, she’s let…

Dear V: Boyfriend feeling neglected
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Dear V: Boyfriend feeling neglected

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has been accusing me of not spending enough time with him. I’m not doing it intentionally, really, but I’m super busy with school and work. I try to balance time spent with family, friends and my guy, but sometimes he gets the short end of the stick because we live…

Dear V: My best friend hit on my boyfriend
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Dear V: My best friend hit on my boyfriend

Dear V, The last few weeks, my best friend has been increasingly difficult. At the football game last weekend, it was the final straw. We’re both partiers, so I’m used to being the designated driver, and I don’t mind holding her hair back while she’s hunched over the toilet. That’s what friends are for, right?…

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