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Dear V: Boyfriend’s fetishes becoming too extreme
Dear V

Dear V: Boyfriend’s fetishes becoming too extreme

Dear V, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year or so. We met on a fetish website and hit it off instantly, so we’re just as close to each other physically as we are emotionally, and we’ve shared a lot of unique moments. We’ve enjoyed trying out new things in the bedroom….

Dear V: 5 tips for a smooth summer fling
Dear V

Dear V: 5 tips for a smooth summer fling

As the end of spring semester approaches, UM students are anticipating internships, summer jobs and mojitos on the beach. While slaving away studying for finals, remember to make plans to turn up the heat and break a sweat this summer. Here are five tips for a smooth summer fling: 1. Don’t go back to your…

Dear V: How do I shake my clingy FWB?
Dear V

Dear V: How do I shake my clingy FWB?

Dear V, I’ve had a friend with benefits for a while. Things have been good so far; we talk once a week or so, hook up a few times a month and occasionally hang out together in our group of friends. Problem is, I think my FWB is developing feelings for me. At first, I…

Dear V: Boyfriend fears I’m sizing down
Dear V

Dear V: Boyfriend fears I’m sizing down

Dear V, I’ve been considering getting a breast reduction. They’re much less common than implants – you might say “bigger is better” – but I’m an athlete and my DD’s get in the way of my ability to perform well playing soccer and running track and field. It’s not that I’m not comfortable with my…

Dear V: I’m wrapped up in his baby-mama drama
Dear V

Dear V: I’m wrapped up in his baby-mama drama

Dear V, I’ve been seeing a guy who’s five years older than me. When he was in high school, he accidentally got a girl pregnant. They decided to keep the baby, but ended up breaking up a few years ago. He visits his ex frequently to check in on his child, but it’s clear he…

Dear V: My boyfriend’s taking ‘Zootopia’ too far
Dear V

Dear V: My boyfriend’s taking ‘Zootopia’ too far

Dear V, Lately, my boyfriend has become interested in “furries,” that is, the subculture of people who enjoy things like My Little Pony and erotic animal art. At first, I thought he was just trying to freak me out. He joked about wanting to lick my feet the first time we hooked up, but it…

Dear V: Sister’s crush starting to get awkward
Dear V

Dear V: Sister’s crush starting to get awkward

Dear V, The guy I’m dating is great – he’s sweet, caring and has a great sense of humor. My family loves him. Thing is, someone in my family loves him too much. My younger sister is a freshman in high school and, even though I can’t blame her, she’s developed a crush on my…

Dear V: Part-time girlfriend, part-time therapist
Dear V

Dear V: Part-time girlfriend, part-time therapist

Dear V, My boyfriend and I grew up together, but we only started dating a few years ago when his ex-girlfriend left him. When I started seeing my boyfriend, his ex warned me he’s “too much to handle.” I didn’t know what she meant until now. My boyfriend has chronic depression and has been diagnosed…

Dear V: Can’t reach my ‘Final Destination’
Dear V

Dear V: Can’t reach my ‘Final Destination’

Dear V, I’ve been in a friend-with-benefits situation with a guy for a few months. We hook up once or twice a week and have gotten to know each other pretty well when it comes to the bedroom. He knows what I’m into and I always have a good time with him. Thing is, it’s…

Dear V: Should we have an open relationship?
Dear V

Dear V: Should we have an open relationship?

Dear V, My boyfriend and I have dated for three years. He moved for work last year, so we’re in a long-distance relationship now and it’s tough. We talk on the phone almost every day, but it doesn’t feel the same as cuddling with Netflix or, y’know … intimacy. I joked about wishing we could…

Dear V: My bae might be gay
Dear V

Dear V: My bae might be gay

Dear V, My boyfriend hasn’t been attracted to me lately and hasn’t wanted to have sex as much as usual. I had a gut feeling something’s wrong, so I went through his phone. I feel guilty about it and want to tell him, but I don’t know how to apologize without mentioning what I found….

Dear V: What if he’s still in love with his ex?
Dear V

Dear V: What if he’s still in love with his ex?

Dear V, These last few weeks, my boyfriend has acted strange. The other day, he was going to crash at my place so he asked me to grab some shoes from his closet. I accidentally found a box filled with pictures and gifts from his ex-girlfriend. I tried talking to him about it but he was defensive and accused me…

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